Nate is out of town. Usually when Mom goes on a girl's weekend or out for a treat, it helps to reset life. Everyone appreciates me more and I am ready to be home and happy with our family. Interestingly enough, Nate going out of town has done this for me. Not because it has been a break by any means, but I have realized a lot of good things this week that I already knew but wasn't focused on.
1. I love Nate! I like having him around and having our family time. He is around a lot. He is really busy, but loves being with our family playing, working, and living.
2. I love our children! I love being a Mom to them. They really are so amazing. They have each overcome struggles in their life. They are talented in many areas and they enjoy being together. Sure, they argue, fight, drive each other and me crazy, but I feel like I enjoy life more when they are around. I focus more on what I need to teach them, what they need from me, so therefore what I need to be. It's funny, The more inwardly focused I become, the less I actually change or feel good about myself.
3. Everything else is less important. House, work, callings, service, yard work, sports, music, etc. No matter how important, it just doesn't compare to these 4 people in my life! If they add to it, great! If not, this week they are out!
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As I type this post Shawn is following Cara with a Nerf gun while she comes screaming to Mom. I love them! Now let's give them some timeout or rather my love and attention, which they obviously need:)
